Personal & Professional Relationships that Resonate!
August 11th, 2009
WORD COUNT: 781 Brief, Yet Transformative Words
TIME to Grow: * Less than 7 Minutes *
What you believe about yourself is sensed by others through the energy fields around your body. In fact, predominate thoughts and feelings are instantly recognized by those around us at the extrasensory level. We don’t always consciously process the energy into specific thoughts, but we do pick up on other people’s “vibes” all of the time. For example, have you ever noticed yourself instantly liking someone, even before they uttered a word? Well you were picking up on their energy, and their frequency resonated with your frequency!
And since our self-image determines our energetic resonance, then it also follows… that we attract what we believe to be true about ourselves.
Your self image determines who and what you attract into your life, and… that includes how people respond to you. Which is why “daily discovery” is such a helpful practice as you align with your most important goals. For you receive what you believe. So … success is about who you become, as you grow into your goals!
For example, when we learn how to walk our talk, while allowing others the freedom to do the same, respect naturally follows. When we believe that we are truly worthy of all that we want to receive, we attract those who value our unique gifts, and repel those who do not.
It’s a sweet system, isn’t it? Success really is an inside job, in the truest sense. So, there’s no need to try to control anything outside yourself, which is impossible anyway. The power rests within you!
So resist the temptation to go into self-criticism for anything that hasn’t yet materialized in your experience.
Instead, embrace your personal power. For you have the ability to emulate, and therefore attract what you truly want to experience in your personal and professional relationships!
Here’s what I mean. We change our energy flow though our predominate thoughts and actions. So notice the behaviors directed toward you.
Are there any recurring themes you’re experiencing? Do people generally respect your time and space? Do they listen to you, or ignore or talk over you? Do they appreciate your contributions? Do you feel good when you’re around them?
If the answer is yes, that’s a great indicator that you have healthy self esteem, and your self image is probably aligned with your desired experiences!
On the other hand, if you’d like to make some improvements, then use this short, yet transformative exercise. At the end, you’ll have a tool you can use any time to improve your relationships, and align with more empowering perspectives about yourself and your reality!
Ask yourself:
1. Are there any unpleasant characteristics showing up repeatedly in my current relationships?
2. Given the unwanted experiences, what beliefs or ideas might I be holding about myself… that are drawing this energy toward me?
3. Now look at the list you have in front of you, and flip the unwanted perspectives into Empowering Agreements.
This is done by choosing the opposite of the undesired characteristic. For example, “I don’t feel heard” might become: I Respect Myself … I Feel Heard… or I Listen to and Respect My Inner Truth, While Allowing Others to Walk Their Own Path. Here’s another example: “I feel underpaid for what I do” becomes: My Gifts are Precious and Valued and I am Open and receptive to Receiving ________ Now.
4. Your agreements are empowering contracts that you make with yourself. You’re releasing old paradigms, and embracing the New Agreements. This allows you to attract more fulfilling relationships, and repel those characteristics that no longer match your desired experience! So if you notice unpleasant events surfacing, pause before getting caught in a disempowering perspective. Take a few deep breaths, and recognize that the old behavior, or idea is just old programming being released. Don’t follow the train of thought that takes you into a downward spiral. Instead, be grateful that you’ve recognized what you no longer want, and turn your inner dialogue toward your Empowering Agreements!
With a little practice, you’ll find this exercise can have a profound impact on the quality of your journey. As you use this simple 4-Step process, you’ll find that you can easily shift from the old programming, and into your New Agreements within seconds. And in a short time, you’ll notice that you no longer attract the unwanted experiences, and you’re enjoying more rewarding relationships with yourself and others!
Here’s the bottom line. When you improve your own beliefs about yourself, you raise your energetic resonance. So, you begin to repel the unwanted experiences, and attract more of the joyful and respectful moments that you truly desire!
Recognize your true value, and others will too!
Your friend and partner in creating fulfilling realities,
Daily Discovery ….
because success is about who we become as we grow into your goals!
Copyright© Laura Cardone 2009. All Rights Reserved. This is a Daily Discovery Series edition. www.profitswithpurpose.com is for progressive thinkers, conscious business owners and other adventurous souls who are redefining success ~ celebrate your life!
